Let us live so that when we come to die even the undertaker, friends and family will be sorry. When your friends begin to flatter you on how young you look, it’s a sure sign you’re getting old. Seat back and enjoy this article as it presents you pretty good tips to make your life more pleasurable.
APPROVE OF YOURSELF
“A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.”
If you don’t approve of yourself, of your behaviour and actions then you’ll probably walk around most of the day with a sort of uncomfortable feeling. If you, on the other hand, approve of yourself then you tend to become relaxed and gain inner freedom to do more of what you really want.
What you may be bumping into there are success barriers. You are putting up barriers in your own mind of what you may or may not deserve. Or barriers that tell you what you are capable of. They might tell you that you aren’t really that kind of person that could this thing that you’re attempting.
This is no easy task and it can take time. So you need give yourself approval and allow yourself to be who you want to be. Not look for the approval from others. Be the real person of yourself to dissolve that inner barrier or let go of that self-sabotaging tendency.
YOUR LIMITATIONS MAY JUST BE YOUR MINDSET
“Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.”
So many limitations are mostly in our minds. We may for instance think that people will disapprove because we are too tall, too old or fat. But these things mostly matter when you think they matter. Because you become self-conscious and worried about what people may think. And people pick up on that and may react in negative ways. Or you may interpret anything they do as a negative reaction because you are so fearful of a bad reaction and so focused inward on yourself.
“It is, for instance, seldom too late to do what you want to do”. If you, on the other hand, don’t mind then people tend to not mind that much either. And if you don’t mind then you won’t let that part of yourself become a self-imposed roadblock in your life.
LIGHTEN UP AND HAVE SOME FUN
“Humor is mankind’s greatest blessing.”
Humor and laughter are amazing ingredients. They can turn any serious situation into something to laugh about. They can lighten the mood just about anywhere.
“Against the assault of laughter nothing can stand.” And a lighter mood is often a better space to work in because now your body and mind isn’t filled to the brim with negative emotions. When you are more light-hearted and relaxed then the solution to a situation is often easier to both initiate and implement.
LET GO OF ANGER
“Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel
in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.”
Anger is most of the time pretty needless. It can cause situations to get out of hand. And from a selfish perspective it often more hurtful for the one being angry then the person he or she’s angry at.
So even if you feel angry at someone for days recognize that you are mostly just hurting yourself. The other person may not even be aware that you are angry at him or her. So either talking to the person and resolving the conflict or letting go of anger as quickly as possible are pretty good tips to make your life more pleasurable.
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